Here is the first of the 16things
Being likeable has its benefits - you'll have an easier time scoring your dream job and making friends. Recently, Redditors shared some advice for making yourself more likeable. Here are some of the top tips:
1. They smile - a lot.
Seeing a smile makes other people happy, so if you're smiling when you're interacting with someone, he'll find you easy to like and friendly.
2. They ask people questions.
There's nothing people love more than to talk about themselves. They will find the conversation more memorable and positive if they spend time talking about themselves.
3. They pay attention.
Listen more to other people than you speak, and people will feel valued. Even if you're asking questions, people won't warm up to that if it seems you're not listening to what they're saying.
4. They remember names.
Names are such a core part of people's identity. Bringing their names up in the conversation will not only make them feel good, but they'll also appreciate the fact that you remember their names.
5. They repeat and reinforce.
Repeating what someone said to you and reinforcing it will help people feel validated. And that's all people want - validation.
Being likeable has its benefits - you'll have an easier time scoring your dream job and making friends. Recently, Redditors shared some advice for making yourself more likeable. Here are some of the top tips:
1. They smile - a lot.
Seeing a smile makes other people happy, so if you're smiling when you're interacting with someone, he'll find you easy to like and friendly.
2. They ask people questions.
There's nothing people love more than to talk about themselves. They will find the conversation more memorable and positive if they spend time talking about themselves.
3. They pay attention.
Listen more to other people than you speak, and people will feel valued. Even if you're asking questions, people won't warm up to that if it seems you're not listening to what they're saying.
4. They remember names.
Names are such a core part of people's identity. Bringing their names up in the conversation will not only make them feel good, but they'll also appreciate the fact that you remember their names.
5. They repeat and reinforce.
Repeating what someone said to you and reinforcing it will help people feel validated. And that's all people want - validation.
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